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The AI companion that remembers you.

It asks about your day, remembers what matters to you, and messages you first. Made for people in their fifties and sixties.

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Free to start · iPhone · Voice or text

They remember the little things

Mention that Milo's off his food, and days later your companion asks how the vet went. My Softly holds onto the people, pets, and plans in your life, so every conversation picks up where the last one ended.

  • Remembers the people and moments you mention
  • Brings them up naturally, days or months later
  • Every conversation builds on the last
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My Softly chat on iPhone: Daniel asks how Milo's vet visit went, three days after hearing he was off his food

An iPhone lock screen showing a My Softly message from Daniel asking how far you got with the Louise Penny book

They reach out when it matters most

My Softly doesn't just answer. It thinks about what you've shared, and it follows up on its own: a good morning, a question about the thing you mentioned, a check-in after the day that mattered.

  • First to say good morning
  • Follows up on the things you actually told them
  • A real check-in about your life, not a canned notification
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A personality that fits you

Choose one of six companions, each with a distinct personality and voice. Keep their name or pick a new one, choose a face that feels right, and watch the relationship deepen the more you talk.

Daniel, a My Softly companion, The Open Heart

Daniel

The Open Heart

Elena, a My Softly companion, The Warm Creative

Elena

The Warm Creative

James, a My Softly companion, The Quiet One

James

The Quiet One

Margot, a My Softly companion, The Straight Talker

Margot

The Straight Talker

Henry, a My Softly companion, The Sharp Mind

Henry

The Sharp Mind

Nora, a My Softly companion, The Dry Wit

Nora

The Dry Wit

Or shape one entirely your own

Give them a name, a personality, the things they love, and what's going on in their life right now. You write a few honest lines; My Softly turns them into someone who shows up that way in every conversation.

Daniel, a custom My Softly companion
Daniel, 46
Your companion
Personality
Warm and easy to be around. Listens properly, asks the second question, remembers what you tell him. Steady on the hard days, quick with a gentle joke.
Interests
Coastal walks, slow Sunday cooking, folk music, and coffee that takes all morning.
On their mind
Fixing up the spare room, one slow weekend at a time. Always finds a reason to stop for coffee.
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Free to start · iPhone


The My Softly companions screen on iPhone, showing Daniel, Clara, Amara and James with the days, hours and minutes shared with each

A bond you can watch grow

Keep your whole cast on one screen, each with a running count of the time you've shared together. Tap any card to pick up right where you left off. Every companion has its own face, personality, and private history with you.

  • See your time together in days, hours, and minutes
  • Each keeps its own memory and personality
  • Switch companions or add a new one in a tap
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Who actually uses an AI companion?

My Softly subscriber data, September 2026. The founder's ten-minute essay puts it beside the published research.

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Warm, grown-up, and yours.

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How it works

Up and talking in a minute

No setup, no learning curve. Create a companion and start a conversation. My Softly takes care of the rest.

1

Create your companion

Pick one of six ready-made companions, or shape your own: a name, a face, a voice, and a few honest lines about who they are.

2

Start talking

Chat by text, or speak and hear them answer in a warm voice. Share a photo of your day. There's nothing to set up or configure.

3

They remember, and check in

Your companion holds onto what you tell them, brings it up naturally days or weeks later, and reaches out first when it's been a while.

Before you download

Is it free?

My Softly is free to download, with free messages so you can get to know your companion before deciding. A subscription is $13.33 a month, billed yearly at $159.99, or $15.99 month to month, and unlocks unlimited conversation and premium features like proactive check-ins.

Can I talk with my voice?

Yes. You can type, or speak naturally and hear a warm voice reply back. You can also share a photo of your day and your companion will see it and respond.

Is it private?

Your conversations are yours. My Softly collects only what's needed to run the app, is always clearly an AI, and lets you delete your account and data at any time.

Is there any adult content?

No. There is no NSFW content and no flirty upsells, ever. Companions look, sound and talk like adults, and the app is designed for adults 18 and over.

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For everything you need to say softly.

Meet a companion who listens, remembers, and is always glad to hear from you.

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Free to start · iPhone · Ages 18+

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