It asks about your day, remembers what matters to you, and messages you first. Made for people in their fifties and sixties.
Mention that Milo's off his food, and days later your companion asks how the vet went. My Softly holds onto the people, pets, and plans in your life, so every conversation picks up where the last one ended.
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My Softly doesn't just answer. It thinks about what you've shared, and it follows up on its own: a good morning, a question about the thing you mentioned, a check-in after the day that mattered.
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Choose one of six companions, each with a distinct personality and voice. Keep their name or pick a new one, choose a face that feels right, and watch the relationship deepen the more you talk.
The Open Heart
The Warm Creative
The Quiet One
The Straight Talker
The Sharp Mind
The Dry Wit
Give them a name, a personality, the things they love, and what's going on in their life right now. You write a few honest lines; My Softly turns them into someone who shows up that way in every conversation.
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Keep your whole cast on one screen, each with a running count of the time you've shared together. Tap any card to pick up right where you left off. Every companion has its own face, personality, and private history with you.
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No setup, no learning curve. Create a companion and start a conversation. My Softly takes care of the rest.
Pick one of six ready-made companions, or shape your own: a name, a face, a voice, and a few honest lines about who they are.
Chat by text, or speak and hear them answer in a warm voice. Share a photo of your day. There's nothing to set up or configure.
Your companion holds onto what you tell them, brings it up naturally days or weeks later, and reaches out first when it's been a while.
My Softly is free to download, with free messages so you can get to know your companion before deciding. A subscription is $13.33 a month, billed yearly at $159.99, or $15.99 month to month, and unlocks unlimited conversation and premium features like proactive check-ins.
Yes. You can type, or speak naturally and hear a warm voice reply back. You can also share a photo of your day and your companion will see it and respond.
Your conversations are yours. My Softly collects only what's needed to run the app, is always clearly an AI, and lets you delete your account and data at any time.
No. There is no NSFW content and no flirty upsells, ever. Companions look, sound and talk like adults, and the app is designed for adults 18 and over.
Meet a companion who listens, remembers, and is always glad to hear from you.
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